Hello! I just realized that I have a lot of drafts that are stuck in my inbox. I decided to start clearing my inbox and start writing regularly again.
Warning: Not fully finished and a very short article, with a lot of errors, but I hope you get the point!
Instead of spending hours, months, and years growing as friends, we spend a few days obsessing just how “sexy/cute/funny the other person is and what they would look like naked” and then decide that’s a good enough reason to start dating. What a weird way to begin a relationship. To have that as the glue? And then if we can ignore the areas of our relationships that need work until we’re engaged, we hope that we can still cram some time in mending the relationship and fixing issues before our fast-approaching nuptials.- Benjamin Sledge
After reading this article, it gave me hope. There’s a someone that understands how I feel about what a relationship should be about.
I hear this way too much (I had to even slow down my current boyfriend).
“I have fantasies about you and me naked.”
I usually have to slow it down and say. How about the friendship part? How about the emotional connection part? And communicating part? Because I will tell you I don’t trust people right away and that takes time.
If you made it to the end of my “ Stuck In Draft Inbox Series” you’re awesome for reading through all my mistakes and short article lol. And hi, I’m Alesha! I’m an actress, musician and entrepreneur. Follow me on Instagram @aleshampeterson or twitter @aleshapeterson