Hey! Thanks for reading and the comment! I appreciate you! What you are saying is spot on. As the single for life girlfriend in the crew(s), I'm like guys, there's all these women who want the same things as you! I'm the honorary 3rd wheeling auntie yo, you got the wrong person lol! But my friends and cousins who want relationships genuinely can't get a look. I do have some moments of silence which I appreciate and don't take for granted. Like here lately I've been going to family functions and no ones been asking anything (thank goodness, I think they are getting the message). I've been buying my auntie shirts and wearing them proudly. For what it's worth, I hope by me speaking out? And by saying hey, while I love love for others, it's not the path for everyone and it's not for me. I'm also hoping we can get to the point where people can be respectful of another's path, regardless if they understand it or not.