Future me! Excited to grace this earth as Dorothy Heffner the 2nd.

Yup, I cut a lot of friends in recent years. I have friends that I know I'll have for life but I let a lot of them go, and it was for the best. Because after I cut them, successes flowed in. I lovingly detached.

A mess I'm staying out of.

If she's tired, I'll take it up. After being stupid in my younger years and trusting people with my life. I'll never do that again. Here's to being independent and not an idiot like I once was.

Them biscuits. LAWDZ.

#1 Start building businesses & growing YouTube channels at 18 instead of 25. #2. Ignore that horrid well intentioned advice you heard since the age of 8. #3. Do what you want, not what society wants for you. #4. Don't exchange your time for money. Learn how to earn money in your sleep. Start at 18. #5. Haters are a dime in a dozen. Expect to get attacked/questioned because you are going to go on a different path . You're never going to touch a 9 to 5er. People won't understand this and will disappear/criticize/hate/do things to destroy you. Let them talk. You're gonna do just fine in business and YT, ignore, ignore ignore. #6. Let them talk. People on the sidelines will always criticize people playing in the game.

Well, as someone who's trust been violated multiple times, I'm sticking with the animals. And people that I trust (and that's far & few). I don't go whoa it's me, because no one wants to hear that crap and they will just say you're playing victim. I just woke up one day and said you know what. I'm just gonna do what works best for me

After some friends disappeared on me, I started wondering what the hype was, and disappeared more than once. After disappearing and finding some successes, I will mindfully disappear to accomplish goals, not hurt folks.

Ok let's get it.

As one of girls that's one the guys in the group. I always make those boundaries very clear. I'm the 3rd wheeling auntie THATS A FRIEND. I'm not the mother of your kids, don't get it twisted. Terri, this article is so timely.

This is an excellent piece. If I can help it. I won't ask. I'm stubborn and pretty creative, and asking for help on too many occasions has led to bad things I won't discuss. I mean I can do bad and be a piece of shit by myself. People will never know how bad it got because I do not talk about it + no one wants to hear it. You gotta keep it moving and live life even though you never get closure.

Life is never the same. I don't talk about mine anymore, because too many people were like why are you expecting me to help you? And disappeared. And I've found people don't care unless they experienced it themselves. You live life, but what you been through is definitely a part of the fabric of your being.