My bad for just seeing this reply. Sorry you had that experience. The biggest problem I kept running into is too many guys wanting to date instead of being professional and focusing on the music. Some of the guys in my hometown wanted someone to bounce, and since I didn’t play along (and didn’t like the guys back) I decided to stop engaging in my city altogether. I just started going to LA and NYC more often. I see that you have a lot of articles, and I can’t wait to read them!