Same. I find that I do better when I distance myself from people. I've been experiencing a certain level of peace when I left the people that made assumptions and judgement calls alone.
I had to go through a purging period of cutting out a lot of toxic people, places and things. My peace, self care and happiness are my number ones. I'm very picky on who I let in.
I'm just to the point where if someone wants to genuinely show up awesome. If they don't want to, awesome.