You Matter
The best email came in my box race weekend. Read below for details.
Dear Alesha,
It’s important to understand your surroundings and the emotions you feel with those around you.
You want to make sure you are uplifted and supported by the friends and family you make.
It’s crucial to set boundaries and cut off those people in your life that make you feel anxious, uneasy, invalid, foundationless, and unreasonable.
You MATTER. Your feelings MATTER.
People that make fun of you or take your insecurities and basically throw them at you are not your true friends or people you want to be around.
You want to surround your environment with people that are motivational, uplifting, encouraging, and inspirational.
Sometimes it’s important to understand that you can and will outgrow people.
There are people in your life that are meant to just be lessons.
It’s difficult when you want to hold onto someone that you cared about so dearly.
As hard as it might be, it’s important to realize that some relationships in our lives aren’t meant to last.
We are supposed to keep the lesson, but not the person.
People try to hold on and cling onto the people that aren’t meant to stay in their lives forever.
A family, friend, or partner is supposed to bring a message into your life.
You have to free people from your life so that you can make space and room for others to come and help you grow.
Learn a new perspective and outlook on life.
Remember to choose to hold onto the lesson that these people bring you.
Now, think about the circle that you associate yourself with.
Do you have a good feeling about the people that are close to you?
Do they truly accept you for who you are and not judge you behind your back?
Do they support you especially in the times you need it?
There’s a theme going around especially on social media about “toxicity” or “toxic relationships”.
Remember that peace and love are important.
Peace and love will help you grow.
Imagine your circle of friends, family, and your relationships as a garden.
You want to keep your garden growing and take care of each other.
Cut out any flower (person) in your garden that is poisonous to your mind, body, and spirit.
Elevate your surroundings by keeping people that match your energy.
People that either can give you peace and harmony by putting you at ease.
Now is the time to set boundaries and cut off all people that no longer serve you.
You must follow your gut with those people even if you need to keep your circle small.
People that are willing to not judge you, accept you for who you are, understand and are open-minded about your opinions of life, and will continue to show you love are those that are worth keeping in your life forever.
Those that talk behind your back, laugh and call you names, don’t take you seriously, and hope to see you fail are the ones that are not ready to enter your garden.
Set boundaries.
Keep your garden of people.
Cut out the fakes.
You deserve those that want to be there for you even if it’s not on a daily basis.
You can have family, friends, and relationships that don’t talk to you every day but just know once you reconnect that it’s like the love was never gone.
The love will never fade because of how strong the bond was created but never broken.
Once you start cutting people off that feel draining and negative, your life will get a whole lot better.
Stay positive and good people in your life are coming!
With all my love,
Angela Carter
P.S. I hope that I can be one of the people in your life who can continuously motivate, uplift, encourage & inspire you.
And in turn, you allow me to get inspired by you and your positive transformations in life.
Enjoy your weekend :)
Yes Angela, you are in my garden.
I have my garden. And yeah when it comes to friendships, I’m flexible. Some people stay forever, some people go, they only lasted for a seasom. Others I know that if it’s years before we talk again, I can pick up the phone and we can pick up right where we left off.
P.S. There’s 2 people from my grade school that I have personally cut off because they are so toxic and cruel that I would not let them in my life ever again. If I was a evolved human or in some heavenly state where I was crazy enough to talk to them again, I would always be watching my back with them. I have friends who show me what loyalty and love looks like.
Bonus: My Numerology Reading (That I Still Read Lol):
Numerology Reading
My numerology reading is really accurate. I had this done in 2014 and it’s amazing what 7 years can do.
Alesha,
I hope you enjoyed the sample reading I sent you on a couple days ago.
I’ve been looking a little deeper at your numerology chart
Alesha, and here is what I have found:
I see you floating in a sea of endless time — great vistas and a
feeling of lifetimes behind and ahead of you. I get the feeling of
urgency with you Alesha, things that must be done, lessons that must be experienced. I sense the rhythm of life, the cycles we all experience.
From your “3” Life Path in combination with your “11” Soul Urge, I get the
impression that you have a pleasant personality, and are generally liked by others. You can be easily hurt at times, and as a result are more careful with displaying your feelings than you used to be.
Alesha, I sense that you are a very busy person who is always on the go. The more you have on your plate, the better. At times you wish you had less to do, but you would be totally lost if you woke up one morning and found nothing at all to do! This couldn’t happen, of course, as every time you get a space you seem to fill it up very quickly. You’ll be just as busy in late life as well … in fact you won’t get time to grow old, you’ll just simply keep on growing!
Having said that, it’s not surprising you need a break after this
past year. Let’s face it — we all need a little breathing space now
and again to re-charge our batteries. Remember to take time to
smell the roses!
Alesha, you have had a few worries recently about money, but you know you have the power to solve them. While it’s been a bit of a bumpy ride financially these past couple of years, the next 18 months or so will be a lot easier.
Looking at your Personal Days and Personal Months, you should be pleased Alesha … it shows that shortly you will receive some pleasant news. It is nothing momentous, but is sufficient to raise your sights and hopes. It is good news.
I sense a period early on in your life — teenage years perhaps -
when you felt misunderstood, as if you couldn’t really get close to anyone, as it you are walking on the outside of life. These
feelings very occasionally reoccur.
You are a very special person Alesha. The experiences you undergo are all for a very special purpose, one I’m sure you are not aware of yet. Nevertheless, you are progressing in exactly the right direction. Your timing is good and you are learning from every experience. I don’t know if you believe in reincarnation, but I get the feeling that you are a highly evolved person, as if you have lived many times before. In time you will have much to offer the rest of us.
Romantically, it has not always been easy, and your outlook on life has changed because of this. The future is much easier in this regard than in the past.
Alesha, you have sometimes wondered if you have made the right decisions at times, and it looks as if you have. You work best when you make your own mind up on things, though it is useful to ask other people for advice before you make your own mind up.
I see some travel in your future, and several new horizons
beckoning. Your progress in this world has not always been as fast as you would like, but I can see significant growth in the future. You tend to feel you have a lot of unused capacity, and that people don’t always give you full credit for your abilities.
I can see you happy and productive in your old age, surrounded by friends and family. You are of above average intelligence, and will keep on learning all the way through life.
Alesha, this is just the smallest glimpse of what
numerology can show you about your past, your present, and your future. I have something truly exciting I’d like to share with you, where you can get a “sneak peek” into the surprising future that awaits you — get all the juicy details here.
Yours in Numbers,
Mike Madigan
Numerologist.com
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